Most women have a very weak grasp of power and how to use it. By that I don't mean political power but emotional ones. Sometimes even when you're 101% in the right and your guy is as guilty as Bill Clinton BUT end of the day you still feel like the loser, the sinner. Why?

Becos we don't know how to work the guilt. As women when we feel we're right we just let loose. We just blast our way through and the guy evolves from feeling guilty to irritated to defensive and finally pissed off. That's when they don't feel they're in the wrong at all. "Look at what kinda gf/partner i have, no wonder I ......" The tables turn.

Another lesson that is very important to me now. Sometimes when you just let go, when you just take a step back, count to 10 and let the guy drown in his own guiltiness, it's far more effective than you screaming the house down and then BOTH of you tearing the house apart.

Isn't it?

Shall I put up my pic to scare? Haha


Toyota MR Spyder - ON HOLD
Driving license - FAILED! =(
Diving license
Visit bro in Tokyo
Beach holiday (Bali/Phuket)
Orlando Disney
LD package
Zoom!
New wardrobe
Lose 3 kg
Dog
New sport (wakeboard/sailing)
Jap goodies - GOT THEM! Thankies bro!

Are we only allowed 3?? =p


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Cheechee's Musings






Purest Of Pain

I'm sorry I didn't mean to call
but I couldn't fight it
I guess I was weak and couldn't even hide it
and so I surrender just to hear your voice
I know how many times I said I'm gonna to live without you
and maybe someone else is standing there beside you
but there's something baby that you need to know
that deep inside me I feel like I'm dying
I have to see you it's all that I'm asking.

Vida, give me back my fantasies
the courage that I need to live
the air that I breathe
Carino mio, my world becomes so empty
my day's are so cold and lonely
and each night I taste
the purest of pain.

I wish I could tell you I'm feeling better every day
that it didn't hurt me when you walked away
but to tell you the truth I can't find my way
and deep inside me I feel like I'm dying
I have to see you it's all that I'm asking.
Vida, give me back...